Your Sons and Daughters to Respond to Aggressive Flirting
FROM PROVERBS ABOUT TECHNIQUES OF FLIRTATION
For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil;
keeping you from the immoral woman, from the smooth tongue of the wayward wife.
they will keep you from the adulteress, from the wayward wife
with her seductive words.
With persuasive words
she led him astray; she seduced him with her smooth
Come, let's drink deep of love
till morning; let's enjoy ourselves with love!
- Hints of
love and commitment
- Pours out
praise and affirmation
- More than
others, compliments and flatters you, ie: "You're so good at
that!" "You look so good in that!"
Do not lust in your heart after her
beauty or let her captivate you with her
and smiles when listening
extra-hard at jokes
Then out came a woman to meet him, dressed
like a prostitute and with crafty intent.
themselves to capture sexual interest or admiration
She is loud and defiant, her feet
never stay at home;
now in the street, now in the squares, at every corner she lurks.
So I came out to meet you; I
looked for you and have found you!
- Is "on
- Manages to
always be around
- Finds you
and sits next to you at church
- Happens to
sit by you in the car on the way to youth outings
- Calls with
a need as an excuse for a chat
- Goes out of
the way to say, "Hi!"
She took hold of him
and kissed him and with a
brazen face she said:
- Brushes her
(young woman) body up against you
touches you -- uses any excuse
conversations puts his/her hand on leg, grabs your arm, playfully hits
- helps you
on with your coat
- your new
hair cut gives an excuse to touch your head
warning she kisses you
- Asks for a
hand up as an excuse to linger and hold onto your hand
backrubs without asking
- Asks for
help with application of suntan lotion
(young woman) on your back and asks for a piggy back ride
provision for relationship
I have perfumed my bed
with myrrh, aloes and cinnamon.
declare to you their interest in you
- tell you
they want to have a committed relationship with you
lack of conscience
"This is the way of an adulteress: She eats and wipes her
mouth and says, 'I've done
impure behavior and attitudes
Adapted from the seminar “Preparing
Your Children for Courtship and Marriage”